Maybe the hardest thing for any stripper to acquire is a relationship, but why these women are pretty, sexy and all the right things to attract a man. So why is it so hard for them to keep one? It could be that exotic dancers are so de-sensitized to males that meeting someone outside of the club is not realistic. Exotic dancers work long hours, often over night and come in contact with hundreds of men over in just a few days. They have seen it all, and been promised the world by would be wannabes. If by chance they do meet someone on their days off and decides she becomes serious with the guy, it usually doesn’t last. Sooner or later he wants her to quit dancing and ends up leaving.  I dint know ladies maybe being an exotic dancer is a catch 22 when it comes to relationships but never in a financial aspect so pick you r poison!