Have you ever been at a nightclub dancing, grinding away to the beat of the music knowing your partner is close behind you watching? Whether you are a man, or woman, we are sure you enjoyed the feeling, knowing your partner is soaking it all up. Yet most people leave this unique energy within the walls of a club.

We are talking about doing a strip tease for your partner, in the privacy of your own home. Think of the possibilities. You and your partner will together discover each others hidden erotic side. The side that wants to please them visually with a dance, and maybe get one in return!

Why Exotic Dancing?

There are many reasons to learn to dance including improved fitness, boost of self-confidence, arousing your partner, yourself, and spicing up your love life. Let’s change up your usual routine the next time your partner comes home from work.

Let’s say your partner is coming home from work, and on the average day, if you’re feeling up to it, you’ll prepare a dinner or maybe a bath, but how often do you go beyond that? You end up wondering what ever happened to your steamy sex life and the spark you both once shared.

Rather then accepting this fate, you have the power to bring back the excitement you felt in the first kiss you shared!

Ladies Let’s Dance – Guys return the favor!

Your husband will be home from work in 30 minutes. You jump out of the shower, dry your hair, and slip into the sweet little number he bought you last Christmas. Smiling in the mirror, you are already getting excited knowing this will be the first time he’s seen you wear it, plus you will be treating him to a dance like no other.

Checking the CD player, filling a small bowl with ice, and opening your favorite bottle of wine, are you almost set. Your make-up is perfect, the natural way he loves it, so sit back, sip your wine, and run your dance through in your mind.

Visualize your husband walking in the door, and you whispering in his ear, “put down your suitcase and don’t talk”. As he stands back up gently blindfold him with a tie, and guide him to the couch, or that big puffy chair. Press play on the stereo, and let the music take care of the rest. Move his hands towards your legs, so he can feel your soft skin.

Bring them a little higher and let his fingertips caress the material of his favorite lingerie. Relax as much as you can, taking it one beat at a time, and slowing un-do his blindfold. Once it’s off, he will soak up the view, seeing you dancing slowly just a foot away, and noticing the bottle of wine chilling for you both.

Keep moving, offering him a glass, and slide your body to the floor. Still you have had little contact with him, making this experience linger as long as possible. Lying on your back, you arch your chest up. Do you then slide the lingerie off, and run ice over your body? Or should you stand up, move towards him, rubbing your body against his so he can smell your clean, fresh skin? Maybe you want some eye candy yourself, so you unbutton his shirt, and open it wide, revealing his chest. This dance is all yours, and always will be. With any luck he may return the favor.

Learning to Striptease and more

Whether it is due to a lack of self-confidence, or not knowing how to begin, dancing erotically for a partner can be a very intimidating experience. If only you knew a professional that could help teach you some basic moves and instructions, you could be dancing confidently in less the a couple weeks…

Well, unlike everywhere else on this site where we tell you that it takes practice and communication, you are in luck! www.PoleFitnessStudio.com has instructional DVDs for women and has a one of a kind DVD for men. Yes men, you can return the favor by learning from “Male Exotic Dancing!” Ladies, if you want to make this holiday season one to remember, we recommend “Lap Dancing and Entertaining Your Man” as the best place to start.

Make plans to visit Las Vegas this year and visit Fawnia in person for private lessons or join into one of her exciting classes! With nine expert instructors learn pole dancing, lap dancing, striptease, kickboxing, ballet, Power Yoga, mat Pilates, Tahitian Hula dancing, hip hop, belly dancing and more!