Now, I’m back to fill you in on some insightful information as part 1 of the 4 part breakdown on essential basics in becoming the gentleman that I know you possess. I was going to begin with your walk but decided to divert to a very misused aspect of the gentlemens club, where you decide to sit.

Guys walk into a Gentlemens club and want to reap all the rewards by sitting in the hot seat but don’t want to shell out hot seat money, others walk in with loads of cash and/or corporate cards and take the penny pincher seat, then there are those that don’t sit at all (I’ll get to these guys in a bit).

Here’s what each of these mean. Figure out which one you are:

Front Row: plain and simple. You’re a big spender. No matter if you go to a strip club where the money is “raining” or more conservative with 20 in the g-string keep in mind that you are the cash cow. The girls are expecting the money from you outside of the private room/ vip rooms where they tend to steer you to. Don’t expect to sit right at the stage and see all the “goodies” in high definition and pay standard money.

Aisle Seat- The aisle in more way then could be a nuesance for both u and the performer. Whereever you see people walking too often you probably want to steer clear from because you’ll constantly get bumped with you Jack and Coke nearly spilling every 10 min. Dancers particularly don’t like it either due to the fact that guys usually talk as the girl passes by but those same guys happen to be not paying for a dance and would rather let the Belvedere turn into their mouthpiece.

Standers- The strip club isn’t a Bono concert guys. You standing the whole night staring at every girl that’s performing is pretty weak. Yea, u can stand for a second to get a better look but the name of the game is being cool and that isn’t even luke warm.Good luck getting one of the hottest girls in the club when they obviously know you never seen anybody as hot as them.

Back- The guys in the back are the mystery. See, you could be shy, corporate, hanging with buddies or literally a first time but the girls don’t know. Know that this is an art and mystery is a key. This equates to creating desire and when in a strip club you want her to want you too. Believe me, it’s get you further. Don’t get me wrong, if the Aisle guys are spending and picking up the girls before they reach the back and the guys sitting right at the stage are showing bills that entice the girls might never make it back to you.

The choice is yours but I’m here to give you a bit about what you’re giving off by sitting in select locations in the club. Good luck fellas, the choice is yours. Be on the lookout for the second of my 4 part breakdown.